Trauma is not defined by the event itself — it's defined by the impact it has on your nervous system, your sense of self, and your ability to feel safe in the world. What is deeply traumatic for one person may not be for another, and that difference says nothing about strength or resilience. It says something about context, history, and the support that was — or wasn't — available at the time.
Trauma can stem from a single overwhelming event or from prolonged, repeated experiences over time. Both are real. Both deserve clinical attention.
Single-incident trauma may include:
Complex or developmental trauma may include:
Trauma responses are the nervous system's attempt to protect you — they made sense at the time. But when those responses persist long after the threat has passed, they begin to interfere with daily life in significant ways.
You may be experiencing trauma or PTSD if you notice:
Trauma also frequently co-occurs with depression, anxiety, and substance use — making integrated, clinically sophisticated treatment especially important.
Effective trauma treatment requires more than talking about what happened. It requires building enough safety and stability first — then gradually processing the experiences that have been stored in the body and mind in ways that keep you stuck. My approach is paced, collaborative, and always led by what feels manageable for you.
Trauma-Informed Care as a Foundation
Everything we do is built on a trauma-informed framework — meaning safety, choice, transparency, and empowerment are not just values, they are the structure of how we work together. You will never be pushed faster than you're ready to go.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for Trauma
Trauma-focused CBT helps identify and restructure the beliefs that formed in response to traumatic experiences — beliefs like "I am to blame," "nowhere is safe," or "I can't trust anyone." Gently challenging these beliefs, in the context of a safe therapeutic relationship, is one of the most well-researched paths to PTSD recovery.
Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT)
CPT is a highly effective, evidence-based treatment specifically developed for PTSD. It focuses on examining and reshaping the way traumatic events have been interpreted — particularly the stuck points around safety, trust, power, esteem, and intimacy that keep trauma responses active long after the events themselves.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
For trauma survivors who experience intense emotional responses, self-destructive urges, or significant difficulty in relationships, DBT provides a concrete skill-based foundation that builds the emotional stability needed to engage in deeper trauma processing safely.
Mindfulness-Based Strategies
Trauma pulls you out of the present — into flashbacks, intrusive memories, or a state of constant vigilance. Mindfulness-based approaches help rebuild your capacity to stay grounded in the present moment, tolerate difficult sensations, and develop a different relationship with your internal experience.
Somatic Awareness
Trauma is stored in the body as much as in the mind. While I do not provide somatic bodywork, I integrate somatic awareness into our work — helping you notice, name, and gradually regulate the physical responses that are part of your trauma pattern.
I work with adults who have often been carrying their trauma quietly for years — sometimes decades — managing symptoms through willpower, avoidance, or substances, while privately wondering why they can't just move on.
I especially work with adults navigating:
For many trauma survivors, leaving the house feels hard. Sitting in a waiting room feels exposing. Driving to an appointment while managing hypervigilance or dissociation feels like too much. Telehealth removes all of that.
All sessions take place via secure, HIPAA-compliant video — from wherever you feel most safe and grounded. You choose the environment. You control the space.
If you're looking for an online trauma therapist in New York, a PTSD psychologist in Texas, or remote trauma treatment in Colorado, Virginia, Wisconsin, or Delaware — I'm licensed and ready to work with you.
Evening appointments available. Confidentiality strictly maintained.
Do I have to talk about what happened in detail?
No — and this is one of the most important things to understand about modern trauma treatment. Effective trauma therapy does not require you to recount every detail of what happened. In fact, some of the most evidence-based approaches work primarily with how your mind and body have interpreted and responded to experiences, rather than the events themselves. We go at your pace, always.
What is the difference between PTSD and Complex PTSD?
PTSD typically develops in response to a specific traumatic event or events. Complex PTSD (C-PTSD) develops in response to prolonged, repeated trauma — often in childhood or within close relationships — and tends to involve additional features like deep difficulties with self-worth, emotional regulation, and interpersonal trust. Both are treatable with the right clinical approach.
How is online therapy safe for trauma work?
Research supports telehealth as an effective and safe format for trauma treatment, including PTSD. Many clients find that being in their own environment during sessions actually increases their sense of safety and control — which is foundational to trauma work. We'll also build grounding and stabilization strategies early in our work together so you have tools to use between sessions.
What if I've tried trauma therapy before and it made things worse?
This is more common than it should be — and it usually points to pacing that moved too fast, or an approach that wasn't well-matched to the complexity of your presentation. Trauma treatment done poorly can be retraumatizing. I take the pacing of trauma work seriously, and we will not move into processing until we've built sufficient stability and trust.
Can trauma therapy help even if I'm not sure what I experienced counts as trauma?
Absolutely. You do not need a formal diagnosis or a "big enough" story to deserve support. If something has affected your sense of safety, your relationships, or your ability to feel at ease in your own life — that is worth exploring, regardless of how it compares to someone else's experience.
Trauma has a way of convincing you that the way things are is the way things will always be. That you're too damaged, too far gone, or too complicated for real healing. None of that is true.
With the right support — at the right pace — people recover from trauma every day. You can be one of them.
If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please call 911, visit your nearest emergency room, or contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988.